NU Students Asked to Look Out for Shower Masturbator

NU Students Asked to Look Out for Shower Masturbator: Several NU students forwarded Gawker an email sent out by campus emergency personnel warning them of warning them to be on the lookout for someone who was caught doing what people sometimes do when still waters run deep, but in the privacy of their own showers. [ more › ]

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Removing Brick’s (A Personal Memoir)

via Welcome to the Mind of Sex Columnist Geri C. by Geri C. on 10/12/11

It is 6 am. I woke up thinking about how far I’ve come as a woman. I was a terrible mess at 18. My definition of the right man was obviously the wrong man. If the dude wasn’t a major dope boy and feared by people in the streets then I wouldn’t be attracted to him. Now that I look back at it I think I was more attracted to the lifestyle. I mean not many chicks where I’m from were rocking the latest designer fashion. I thought it made me better…it just made me a fool. After the drama of that relationship unfolded I was seriously depress. Why… because I had to go back to the way I was living before the dope boy… broke and penniless. One of the hardest things to deal with is to experiences some sort of money for the first time in your life and have it abruptly taken away from you. That was a hard pill for me to swallow. Any person raised in a poor environment can tell you that. When you’re raised in a poor environment you don’t want to grow up and become a product of it. I wouldn’t change the million times my mother had to move us around and the million schools’ I had to go too. It was rough as fuck but it made me who I am today. I am a strong woman that can handle anything. After my dope boy the bricks begin to layer. My wall was slowly building.

Once I knew the dope boy wasn’t coming home anytime soon I gradually tried to move on to a (in my opinion) normal guy. I did finally meet someone after a year and a half but honestly I was still “in love” with the dope boy. I advise anyone not to start a relationship with another person if you are still pouting over the last guy. It turns into a receipt for disaster eventually. Things always start good, and this relationship wasn’t an acceptation to that rule. After awhile I grew very distant and stop communicating with him. This turned into him communicating with other women. Not to say I wasn’t pissed but could I really blame him for his choice? Honestly to live with someone for years and not have them speak to you is not a healthy relationship. To me it is no different then cheating. Before you knew it we fell apart. I learned that you can’t be in love or in a relationship with someone when you don’t know who you are yet. I had no idea who I was or what I wanted to become. I had to take the time to fall in love with myself. Something I had never took the time to do before. My wall was paved with more bricks.

Did I go against my own advice…yes I did. I rebound which wasn’t a good idea but it happens. I would say I lowered my standards, but at the time I didn’t have any. I was literally open to any mans situation. I know now that you must have standard. You can’t accept anything that comes your way because most of the time it is bullshit. The rebound was a cool guy but I have never been attracted to talkers. You know the guy that says he is going to do this and that and does NOTHING. How can I support a man that doesn’t even believe the shit that comes out of his own mouth? A mans word means a hell of a lot to me. Fuck all that other shit. I’ve always been attracted to “go by what you say” type of men. I broke that relationship off because I had had enough. My brick wall grew taller. I had had enough of trying to fix men (which wasn’t my task to accomplish; it was his), but most of all I got tried of the person I was. It’s okay to have the “I don’t give a fuck” attitude for some things but not all. Looking into the mirror everyday and not seeing who I was started to take a toll on me. I finally buckled down and begin taking time out to learn myself.

I took a break from men, sex, and clubbing. It felt great to focus on me for a change. As adult we occasionally need to pay ourselves some attention. With everything we have going on in our life’s on a daily bases makes it kind of hard. I feel like it is better to find the time now then to loose your self later. I started seeing things in a better light. When you grow up in the projects you automatically assume the world is against you. It’s not true; you just have to be bold enough to make a statement. As I grew to know myself more I became a happier person in general which brought wonderful things into my life. I feel like God won’t release them to you until you believe that you sincerely deserve them. I’m only 27 and have gone through so many battles. Through all of these battles I loved receiving the reward of growth. The people who make me stronger or the one who are gradually helping me remove each brick that was laid years ago. The power of growth will always outweigh negativity when you allow it. Don’t let the bricks of your past weigh heavy in your future. It is time to let go and remove the wall.

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New Documentary showing in Dallas exposes sex slavery

via Dallas News on 9/1/11

“Nefarious” a documentary released this year exposes the sex slave industry. Filmed in 19 countries and 31 cities over the past four years beginning in 2007.

Dealbreaker: He’s Anti-Abortion Rights

via GOOD by Chloe Angyal on 9/1/11

In our Dealbreakers series, exes report on the habit, belief, or boxer brief that ended the affair.
“I’m pretty attracted to you,” I told my friend Jack not long ago.
“And I think you’re pretty cute, too,” he replied.
Jack is smart, funny, good looking, talented, thoughtful, and well traveled. He’s into social justice. He takes great photographs, speaks several languages and plays the hell out of a guitar. I had definitely considered sleeping with him.
Unfortunately, my mind had also explored less thrilling scenarios: A torn condom, a missed period, a cluster of cells, a stuffy waiting room—and a one-night stand who was suddenly pressuring me to incubate a human for nine months and then shoot it out of my vaginal canal.
Jack may have reported on human rights in India, but he was raised a Christian in Texas. Over friendly drinks, we had discussed our respective views on abortion—I write and report on feminist issues, so these things come up in conversation when someone asks me about my day—and I knew that he was firmly against the procedure. We hashed out the issue at length that night, and though the discussion was perfectly civil, neither of us had budged an inch by the end. And for me, that meant the conversation would not be transitioning to the bedroom.
In theory, a guy like Jack would never go for a girl like me. “You think I’m a baby killer, I think you’re a misogynist” isn’t exactly a strong foundation for a relationship. But hot anti-choice guys exist, and they have hit on me. And somehow, while discovering that a man is against abortion rights totally kills any mental attraction I might have to him, the physical attraction doesn’t always die.
That means that whenever I meet a new candidate, I’ve got to sneak in some pregnancy talk when I still have the willpower to wave the guy off to the friend zone. I want to avoid any situation where he’s hot, I’m naked, and he’s under the impression that he’s got any say over what I do with any unwanted products of this sexual encounter. That gets tricky, because even when I’ve zeroed in on a guy who supports abortion rights, a discussion of fetal viability isn’t the most obvious tactic for getting a guy to want to sleep with me. There have definitely been moments when I’ve considered screwing my principles and just screwing the guy. At times like those, I remember the one anti-choice guy who did make it beneath my sheets.
After sleeping together several times, this guy told me that he was opposed to late-term abortions because he believed that women “should have made up their minds” by the second or third trimester. I’ll probably never be forced to seek a late-term abortion, but I couldn’t shake the sense that he was looking down on women who are. I’m pretty sure we didn’t have sex that night.
But we did spend many more nights together after he made his views known. By that point, the relationship was too real for me to cut him loose over a theoretical. To make up for the rule breach, I flipped into feminist mode, explaining to him that late-term abortion is usually a life-saving procedure, one that you have when your choice is to end the pregnancy or die, not because you didn’t get around to calling Planned Parenthood in the first 12 weeks. He admitted that he hadn’t thought about the fact that abortion is costly, and that saving up for it can take so long that the first trimester elapses before the funds are raised. So when I was able to get him thinking about it—and when he eventually changed his mind—it was deeply satisfying. Almost sexy.
But by the time we split up, he continued to maintain that “some” women have “too many” abortions and use “abortion as birth control.” I had planned on explaining to him that a woman who uses abortion “as birth control” probably does so because a host of socioeconomic, political and interpersonal factors have combined to mean that she does not have access to the education, contraception, and personal autonomy to use actual birth control. And another thing: why should he get to decide how many abortions are “too many”? But we were too busy breaking up. It was entirely unrelated to abortion.
The importance of abortion rights to my personal relationships only came into focus when I started dating someone new.  This guy was pro-choice when we met, and the revelation wasn’t even awkward. He offered the intel when I told him about my work as a feminist blogger. I still got the thrill of influencing his opinion: A few months into the relationship, he called me up to deliver a 30-minute monologue detailing his revelation that abortion access is about controlling women. It was glorious to witness. And this time, it was also a huge turn-on, for my brain and my body. After that call, I decided I could never go back to having sex with a man who wasn’t full-throatedly pro-choice. I’m still looking for him.

INTERVIEW WITH A TEENAGE PORNSTAR

via Viceland Today by viceus on 8/24/11

Even though I find porn gross and don’t buy the argument that it’s empowering for women, I can’t stop reading Jessie Andrews’ blog. She just seems so normal. Reading her posts about what she ate for breakfast and going to the mall, you almost forget you’ve seen her being simultaneously choked and fucked while crying. I caught up with the 19-year-old American porn/social media celebrity to talk about crushes, how to be comfortable in your own skin and, of course, doing it.
VICE: Hey Jessie! First up, I’m assuming that’s an alias. Where’d it come from?

Jessie Andrews: Jessie was my mom’s dogs name and Andrews was the street I was driving on when I had to pick a last name.

You got into porn when you were 18. How did that happen?
My friend was an extra in a film and she told me how much she made for showing her boobs. I was immediately interested because I’m money motivated. I’m not afraid of what people think of me, I have common sense, I’ve never done drugs and I’m allergic to alcohol so I knew I’d have an upper hand and be successful in this industry.
So you don’t even smoke weed?

Nope.
Your parents must love that. Do they know what you do for a living? 

Yeah my whole family knows.
And they’re cool with it?

They told me they’d love me no matter what, they just want me to be safe and happy.
That’s cute, but doesn’t it creep you out that your dad could Google your name and see you um… working?

Thank God he doesn’t even know how to use email!! I’m not gonna lie, it would be weird.
So let’s talk about work. Is porn easier or harder than it looks? 

It’s definitely harder. The guys have two jobs: to stay hard and cum on command. I can ‘sport fuck’ – I don’t just lay there. I can fuck a guy in any position and he doesn’t have to move. Having a lot of spit, being passionate, talking to the camera, knowing how to network, not having tattoos, being all-natural, personable, knowing how to pose and being humble are all qualities you need. I’m here to have life changing sex and make money.
What are the best and worst things about your job?

The best is being able to be temporarily in love with someone, fucking them and never having to have a relationship with them. I feel like a man whore! The worst is not being able to take a vacation because you always have to be available to work.
Have you made many friends in the business?

I have a few good friends from my agency, the Spiegler Girls, but I normally don’t hang out with industry people. I think that keeps me down to earth.
What do your friends who aren’t in porn think about your career?

I’m not really sure. They treat me just like everyone else.
How about your best friend. What’s she like and what do you do together?

My best friend lives in Miami. I lived there for 18 years. Her name is Viviana and when I visit we dance, see movies, eat a lot Spanish food, chat about what’s new, and just be ourselves. It’s nice to have someone know exactly what you’re thinking before you say it.
I’ve been thinking that girls are too harsh to each other.

I do too, I never call anyone names. It’s disrespectful.
You’re really pretty and you seem confident. Do you reckon girls are intimidated by you?

Yes! It’s weird ’cause I don’t think I’m that pretty. Maybe it’s my attributes that make me attractive.
Some days I hate going to work. It must be challenging if you don’t feel 100% and you have to act like you’re really into being fucked?  
I’ve never missed a shoot, never flaked, and I’m always on time. Unless I’m deathly, I’ll have my game face on no matter what.
Is it weird having sex with people that are much older than you?

I’m only 19, so it’d be illegal to have sex with people much younger.
Is it an anti-climax having sex with normal guys after having sex with people who do it for a living?

It’s tough but if you really like someone, the sex will be just as good.
You must have heaps of boys after you. What do you look for in a guy?

No way Jose! In real life I never get hit on. I always asked my mom why boys never liked me. She said it was because they were intimidated. I have too many standards to even look for a guy.
So you don’t have a crush?

I wish I did, it’d be way easier to masturbate.
Can you be in porn and have a boyfriend?

I think it’s possible. Even marriages are possible and I’m sure they’re difficult.
Do you ever want kids?

Not really.
What’s an average day like for you?

I wake up, Tweet good morning, think about what I need to do that day if I’m not shooting, take pictures and post them, get Starbucks, put clothes on, post more pics, Tweet, eat, go to the mall, do hula hooping, Tweet, post pics, social networking, work on music, eat, post more pics, shower, then Tweet goodnight. I’m pretty simple.
Do you ever party?

Not really. I like to stay home. I’m a loser.
How do you deal with things when you feel sad or lonely?

I don’t think anyone in the world has ever seen me mad. I’m super passive, I just ignore stuff and I’m never lonely ’cause I have the internet.
Did you kiss another girl before porn?

Hell yeah! That was the only thing to do in high school to get boys’ attention.
What was losing your virginity like?

Like a stereotypical high school lust story.
What do you think about fake tits?

I love my boobs and I’m grateful to have them but in a really long time from now I might have to indulge in some new ones.
What advice would you give to girls your age to feel comfortable in their own skin?

You’re still young and your body is going to change as you get older. Look at me, my boobs are growing every day, my face is thinning out, and my baby fat is slowly disintegrating. I wonder what I’ll look like next week.
I’m guessing you’ll still look great. Hey, I totally got sucked into the storyline of your new movie Portrait Of A Call Girl and I liked how it opened with a Jean-Paul Sartre quote, which was so unexpected. What was filming like?

It was amazing. Everyone at Elegant Angel, from the directors to the makeup artists to the receptionists, are such genuine, amazing people. They are my favorite company so filming this movie was a pleasure and an honor. I cried, I punched a mirror, I beat myself up, I ran full speed in the desert, I cried some more. This movie really pushed my acting skills and I’m very proud of it.
I don’t really watch porn. Once my friend and I went back to a guy’s house and he put on Edward Penis Hands and we bailed. Is there anything you could recommend me – maybe something with a good plot or nice cinematography?

Portrait of a Call Girl, of course. Digital Playground does a lot of original high quality movies, New Sensations has their Romance line, and the Parodies you’d totally get a kick out of. Who doesn’t want to see a Simpsons porn?
Cool, thanks!


BY INGRID KESA

Bisexual men really do exist, say scientists

via Boing Boing by Maggie Koerth-Baker on 8/23/11

Good news, bisexual men! A recent study from Northwestern University has confirmed that you do, in fact, exist!
This is countering a previous study by the same research group that suggested men who claimed to be bisexual were really straight or gay. The difference: For this version of the study, researchers made sure to actually recruit some bisexuals.

In the new study, published online in the journal Biological Psychology, the researchers relied on more stringent criteria for selecting participants. To improve their chances of finding men aroused by women as well as men, the researchers recruited subjects from online venues specifically catering to bisexuals.
They also required participants to have had sexual experiences with at least two people of each sex and a romantic relationship of at least three months with at least one person of each sex.
Men in the 2005 study, on the other hand, were recruited through advertisements in gay-oriented and alternative publications and were identified as heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual based on responses to a standard questionnaire.
In both studies, men watched videos of male and female same-sex intimacy while genital sensors monitored their erectile responses. While the first study reported that the bisexuals generally resembled homosexuals in their responses, the new one finds that bisexual men responded to both the male and female videos, while gay and straight men in the study did not.

What’s going on with G?

via Welcome to the Mind of Sex Columnist Geri C. by Geri C. on 8/4/11

A lot of things have been going on in my life in the past couple of months. I am on the cover of Cred Xclusive and I’ve been working my ass off on getting my business started. Shout out to The Fab Five. Everything is on the up and up personally and in the business world. I have a few business trips coming up soon. I mean I love the DMV but you can’t make any major moves here. If you want to be a local star then by all means do so but I want to be globally recognized. I will be in LA around Oct/Nov for about a week. If you interested in business please feel free to hit me. FYI there better be a check/cash at the end of the tunnel. I don’t do ANYTHING for free. Don’t even ask me to do work for free… it’s insulting! The days of shooting a shit load of pictures have ended. I’m working on book projects and with painters. I’m on the artistic side of things full throttle. I love it!

My column has hit over 40,000 views. That isn’t half bad for a one woman team lol. I want to think every freakin reader and hater and spy that I have. I love ya’ll so much. Stay tune for what I got coming March 2012.

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Finger in the Ass

via Welcome to the Mind of Sex Columnist Geri C. by Geri C. on 7/21/11



Yep… thas all me #BOOM

Since a lot of you are terrified of having anal sex with your partners I feel like you should at least let him stick his finger in your ass. I am a HUGH fan of a finger in my ass while I’m on top riding. I definitely consider it one of my many G-Spots. That gets me all the way turned up!!! Any kind of anal stimulation gets my pussy wetter than a super soaker lol. I guess the thought of trying new things turns me on way more than others.

For the people who are wondering lube is not necessary for a little anal finger action. I don’t believe in lube. I believe in dismissing a dude if he can’t turn my pussy into a tsunami! The only time lube should be mention is if the woman has medical problems when it come to achieve an orgasm. Other than that ladies you betta be fucking a bull. Many men don’t mind giving you the finger action. Matter of fact they will do pretty much anything you ask if you open your mouth. Some will lick the crack of your ass then stick a finger in. Hell I’ll take both! I think it is hot and you should NEVER knock anything unless you’ve tried it. Too many of ya’ll are too judgmental. Get out of that play by play sex. Live a little GOSH!!!

Most of the time I didn’t know I like certain shit until the man took it upon his self to put me up on game. From my experience the freakiest dude is the dude that has been in a relationship with a “not there” chick. A “not there” chick is a female that is always telling a man “no not there… put it here or there” every time he tries to do something new with her ass. Imma need ya’ll to get that “not there” bullshit outta here immediately! If any of you men are actually dealing with that nonsense you could never fuck with a woman like me. I love a man that IS a man in the bedroom. If I wanted to fuck a bitch I’d go get a bitch. Take control of every part of my body damn it. Leaving anything out just might leave you out in the cold.

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>Penis Size Related to Length of Index and Ring Fingers [Science]

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via Gawker by Seth Abramovitch on 7/4/11

Finding a way to assess a man’s penis size with all of his clothes on has long been the holy grail of, well, anyone with a vested interest in penis size. The old standbys — hand, foot and nose sizes — have been discredited as viable indicators, the LA Times reports. (Though I’m not so sure if I buy that.) But a team of Korean researchers think they have at last unlocked the elusive Hung Code, and the answer lies in comparing the lengths of the index and ring fingers. More »